Being Single VS Being In A Relationship

Being on Twitter and Facebook one of the unavoildable topics in relationships.  Some people are happy in their relationships and some not. Some people are happy being single, some not. You can be both.

Being in a relationship you can be happy. I guess I can start with mine. We have been together for about 10 months.  At the beginning it is all happy and you are so in love! Then you start to have some doubts...personal ones or ones from things that have happend to you in the past.  This may start to cause some problems or early second thoughts. You get over it...its natural to second guess a drastic change in your daily activities. One such as living with, loving, considering someone. But, you start learning more about yourself, about them, and you figure out your place in the relationship.  You both start to grow and find better ways to communicate and you adapt better characteristics that people in relationships should have. You start to look out for one another realizing the other is looking out for you.  You get past the arguements and realize its petty and then you REALLY start to be happy. You find a friend in your partner.  When we 1st got together my better half had a 1 year old all white pitbull. After we were together for about 8 months I got a 4 week old blue pitt with grey hair and a little white with blue eyes. They are not like people make pitts seems. They are raised correctly and are like little spoiled kids. Don't judge them by the reputation presented by dogs that are trained to be mean.  Chance is now 2 years old and Melody is going on 9 weeks.   We are a happy little family residing in Gwinnett County Georgia. Currently focusing on raising the kids and reaching our dreams.

You can be unhappy in relationship that involves constant abuse, cheating, and settling for less.

You can be happy single, but you will experience occassional depression and lonesome. Being single you are content with who you are. But this might not be good if you're not the best that you can be. If you are in a relationship with someone who motivates and inspires you (which you should be) then you will be striving to be a better person which is a good thing because life is about growth.  It may be frustrating at times, but that is inevitable and comes with the territory. The end result is worth it! Why always take the easy way out?

You can be unhappy single.  This goes without saying. It is natural for people to want to share their lives with another and experience love.

Tweet me and let me know if you'd rather be single or in a relationship and why! @GMooreSonOfSoul on Twitter.

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